life’s all about makin choices
like it or not,we’re doomed to face with many choices in life..many decisions to be made..from the smallest matter, e.g which undies to wear.. to the bigger ones e.g what car to buy..we are to come out with a decision,which means a choice gotta be made..some way or another. in a more abstract way,for instance,if u fight with ur spouse/bf/gf/partner.. either u go berserk straight away or if u’re sensible enough,u’ll evaluate the problem n make a choice from there,whether to b angry or not.i notice that the same thing happen time n time again..lookin back at all da past arguments i shared with my partner cum boyfriend,i was always the one to get angry regardless of whether the problem lies in me or not.u noe,sometimes when u just screw up and when things go wrong and an argument starts…u just lose it..(btw all my arguments/fights/dramas dun live past 24 hours,we somehow will settle it in a diplomatic way.healthy fights i call ‘em) after each argument,i’ll recall wat would’ve happen if i were to keep my cool and not get angry.if it’s my fault,i will just apologise.if it’s not my fault,i will make him apologise..instead of displayin all the princess-sy(pls ignore my informal word) traits where i guess all guys hate in girls. soon,i realise that it’s better this way..less hurt means more love. that’s y i learn to control my temper and think twice before i start to get angry (at least that’s wat i do MOST of the time now.. hehe) oh yea..i still need to scratch my lousy reaction whenever he advise me on smth i did wrong-i will be very quiet(part angry part guilty)- n he hates it when i’m quiet…
so back to makin choices,my point is..u can never walk on two different roads at the same time… it’s either gonna be road A or road B.. a choice has to be made. another has to be sacrificed. a fren told me that "humans tend to be rebellious n choose the way that will make them happy". my reply was "rebellious choice often only offer temporary happiness". remember,when makin choices,make sure u make a wise one.
